Tunesday: Everything Has Changed

Allow me to present a song that, lately, has given me the drive to keep going and going and going. Sure, it’s not particularly boppy and the lyrics aren’t inspirational in that traditional/running sense that you’re used to seeing here… but it might as well be to me.

You see, Everything Has Changed by Taylor Swift and Ed Sheeran was my first dance with my husband at our wedding two weekends ago.

All I know is we said, “Hello”
And your eyes look like coming home
All I know is a simple name
And everything has changed

We hemmed and hawed so much over our first dance song, changing our minds weekly (sometimes even more often than that!). Out of all the songs in all the world, you’d think there’d be one that just fit instantly, seamlessly, right? Almost two months before the big day we still didn’t love anything, and figured we’d just have to settle.

When I first heard this song early in my wedding planning, I wanted to love it because I love Taylor Swift (and Ed Sheeran, to a lesser degree). But at first glance, it was a song about meeting, not enduring. And the lyrics “everything has changed”? And “I just want to know you better now?” I mean, sure my last name was changing (and all my credit cards and identification and user names and omg..), but wouldn’t our love be the same? And isn’t this guy my best friend? Don’t I know him better than I anyone else? How could I possibly know him any better than that??

On our honeymoon in Riviera Maya, Mexico

Then, in those last two months before the wedding, I listened to this song again in desperation and boy, everything had changed!

Of course the guy I was about to marry was my best friend, but that didn’t mean I wasn’t getting to know him better, wouldn’t be getting to know him better, every single day of the rest of our lives. And certainly, our love would be the similar on the other side of “I do,” but so much of how we would function moving forward, how we would refer to one another (from boyfriend to fiancé to husband), and even how the rest of the world saw us, would change. And our love would hopefully change, too… by growing stronger.

Suddenly, with a new perspective, the song that didn’t work before was the perfect fit.

THE BESTAll I know is a new found grace
All my days, I’ll know your face
All I know since yesterday
is everything has changed


6 thoughts on “Tunesday: Everything Has Changed

  1. HUGE congratulations on your wedding. From what I can tell, you guys had the perfect day (weather-wise and ceremony/reception-wise). I love that your first dance was to a T-Swift song and your reasoning for that makes a lot of sense. You two will grow together as a couple and things will change, but for the better I imagine!

    I’m so excited to read/comment on all of your new posts. Running is interesting, but runners also have LIVES, which I think are more interesting :)

    PS Andy and I are now considering moving back to Chicago as well. He realllllllly wants to, haha! Congrats on getting that apartment!

    • Thanks! You’re right, we literally couldn’t have asked for a better day weather-wise. A few crazy things happened at the ceremony/reception (more on that soon!), but I wouldn’t change anything- it was pretty great!!

      P.S. !!! I am so very excited for this possibility! We will have to have another breakfast soon to talk about this (and evvvverything else lol)

  2. I LOVE this song, and I actually got to see/hear it live at a T-Swift concert in Massachusetts a few years ago. The music video is also one of the most adorable things I’ve ever seen. Congrats on getting married!

    • Thanks so much! It may go without saying, but I am SO incredibly jealous that you got to hear this song live!! The video pretty much sold it for me, especially the end XD

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